What’s The Episode About…
This episode is a truly special one for me, because, I’m about to tell you the good, the bad and the very ugly side of pursuing your goals from a point of total disconnection with your inner self and the real reason of why I started working with women to help them build their businesses.
Getting to the top of your game is not an easy path to walk through, but it doesn’t have to be a complete sacrifice. What I’m about to share with you today is a series of wake up calls that I kept ignoring for too long and sadly, the hardest moments are the ones that make you realize how lost you are.
Tune in for this intimate girl talk and let’s start working on these valuable lessons, that I had to learn the bad way, but hopefully, you guys won’t have to.
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When Did It Air…
October 7, 2019
Episode Transcript…
Hey, Hey my friends, welcome back to You’re Not The Boss Of Me. This episode is one that has really, really been on my heart to share and really I would say one of the biggest reasons for me wanting to um, start working with women like you who may be feeling like the fire is not quite there or you’re super excited and fired up, but you feel like you’re spinning your wheels. And my mission is to have this map. Okay. And this is what I’ve done in my business and this is what I’ve been coaching other women to do. Some are network marketers, many entrepreneurs to say, okay, you know what, there are 10,000 ways to build a business and I am going to find the flow of building a business that works for me. That brings me massive abundance. And that fits for me to still have pleasure, joy and to wake up in the morning on fire for living life.
Okay. So in this episode, we are going to talk about some of the things that happened to me along the way in hopes that that will help you with your experience. And then as always, I want to provide you with really, really concrete solutions to get started today, to perhaps not drop and shatter some pretty important glass balls. I refer to glass balls as those things in your life that cannot be dropped. Those are your kids, your family, your health, your mental positivity mindset, your sleep. But I built a business that has earned me at this point in commissions, almost $2 million and it’s a lot of residual income online, but there was a lot of hustle and grind. And if I could go back and what I do know is I help women too, to make their map, to find what works for them in building out their personal business plan.
And it doesn’t always mean having the perfect Instagram feed, the perfect Instagram story unless that’s exactly how you want to do it. So let’s go back. Let’s take a little history lesson today with me. And this is also going to give you some idea of really what I’m all about as we get to know each other in these first episodes of this podcast. So I’ve got to admit this to you. If you would’ve told me that the road to making money was about routines and rituals and a whole lot of like that whoo feeling, I would have said, get back on that meditation pillow. I’ve got my dry shampoo, I’ve got these sticky notes on the wall. I don’t need to sleep. I won’t do it for days. I get shit done and I hit goals and I hit ranks and watch me go, okay, watch me go.
And it’s kind of how I have always done life is that when there’s a big push I out, it’s part of my procrastination. It’s part of how I have had to learn to do the hard things first, but I could achieve great things with a push and I was always doing it for an exterior reward. Are you a person that seeks approval? That was me. I am a recovering people pleaser and trust me when I tell you we will be working on that because I’m working on it constantly. So that hustle and grind, that and there was an alignment issue. I’m posting online, look at me living my best life, building my business from my pool and all those hype-y posts that I look back and think, what was I thinking? Because nobody’s going to look at you building your business by your pool. Yes, you want to show lifestyle if you’re an entrepreneur, but I was thinking, everybody’s going to want this, and I knew I wasn’t sleeping, I wasn’t.
I was staying up till all hours of the night. I was pushing in a way that felt anxious like that there was no calm about my business. So it worked for a while. I pushed and I pushed. I talked to more people than a greeter in Disney world on the day after Thanksgiving. And since I was super passionate about what I was offering, what the business could do for someone and how the products were working. Because remember this is the network marketing game where I had a product and also I still am involved and very much in love with what I do over there. But my passion also has become helping women like you to establish what is your mission, action plan, how will your business look so that you are able to not do some of these things that I’m talking about but make more money and have joy and pleasure and not drop the glass balls and wake up in the morning and be like, I am.
I feel like this is a, I always think about this and right now I’m recording this podcast and I want to tell you about my environment. Cause that’s a super important piece of this, right? Is always having the environment in place and we’re going to get back to the sticky notes, the dry shampoo and all of the crazy chaotic ways that I built a business and how we needed to shift that and why more abundance has come my way since I started to clear the chaos, clear the anxious, like seeking abundance in all areas. So right now I have a diffuser in my office. I love orange. It’s a happy oil for me. I support all my friends to sell all the things like I’m like, Oh yeah, I want that, I want that. I love to support small businesses. And um, last night I did part of my routine and rituals and I’m going to be providing you with these checklists is doing when I was, I don’t know, having babies, there was this lady called fly lady.
If you remember fly lady, I want to hear from you and Instagram. And it was a Yahoo group and she always said, I don’t know, I was obsessed back then cause I didn’t have any rituals or routines. Nobody told me about having rituals, routines, having productivity bubbles. I’ve learned along the way and I think, Oh everybody does that. I said to Blair this morning, who’s one of my, you have to have that person that put, you know, your accountability partner, just someone that you, that you do all the things with for business, but also that’s going to call you out. So Blair is somewhat, she’s actually told me about this network marketing business. She sent me a text, she’s like, Hey, we should take a look at this. And she really was someone that had, and this is such a great lesson, I had met her in one of our prior little jump in sell some jewelry, make some quick money.
I wasn’t ever committed, but she had stayed in touch because she’s about building relationships and that is a whole nother episode. But this morning I said to her, so many women, I think it’s just so normal because we’re in the entrepreneurial space where we talk about routines and rituals being a part of our day. But so many women stopped doing those things when life gets chaotic and I’m one of them. So that was what had me think. This is an episode that we need. So I pushed you guys. As I said, I was pushing, I was winning in my mind and on paper and all of the Facebook posts you would see was this person who was winning and I am addicted to that adrenaline and I had one mission make X amount of dollars, hit X rank and show others to do the same. And I’m telling you that works and you should absolutely have an action-based mission.
You should absolutely go for it. But what happens when you don’t have the self-care, when you don’t have the boundaries in place, you’re going to do. What I did is I hit a ceiling. I hit it hard, a wall, a ceiling. Here I was preaching and for me, it was an income ceiling. I had hit it all and done it all and I’m preaching about how we’re building as entrepreneurs because we don’t want to have a glass ceiling. No one’s holding me back. We can go beyond like with teaching, I would say there was only a certain amount which is true that the maxed-out comp plan for a teacher, the salary was based on education and years, not based on performance and I also love the flexibility of building a business that I could do anything. So that was super motivating.
But when you wake up in the morning and you feel a brick on your chest because you’re disconnected, my bank account looked pretty damn good. I did the things that I set out to do. I got to speak at that stage. That was on a vision board. That was a goal and I’m not here to tell you not to have a vision and push for those things that are important to you, but suddenly it hit the fan. I looked in the mirror, you guys, and I didn’t recognize myself, my health. That was one ball, one glass ball that had dropped the things. I love doing tennis, going for a run, even going to the gym with my friends had taken a back seat in my constant need for the next trophy because I was up early. I wasn’t sleeping at night. I was pushing, I was pushing and I had not taken into account that these were important things.
The first thing that goes, Oh, I can get more another hour if I don’t do those things. And also when you are suffering in one area, you don’t realize that you start to, for me, it’s sugar, it’s overindulged. It’s kind of filling this void. How do you say that word? It’s filling the emptiness with maybe Nadella at night while you’re pushing and pushing and, and working and working. And then I had friends making comments to me that they wanted to see me. I had someone say to me that was really close to me. Wow. I get to see you on Facebook Live. And that didn’t feel good because was this how I wanted my life to be, to be the highlight real be me checking my Tuesday commissions and being super excited. But all of the things that I had loved. I love fitness. You guys.
I loved, I love tennis. I love the connection. I have so many amazing friends, even not going to see my own family. My sisters are Karen and Chris like I would wish for you that you would have the sisterhood that the real sisterhood and I realized what a lucky blessing and how that sisterhood though needs to be worked on, but I would miss trips. I wouldn’t go. My sister was like, we’re going to Mexico with mom. I used to be like, yes, I’m there because I have that flexibility but Oh my gosh, what if I miss this? What if I miss something? I was totally disconnected from my husband from Don. Often I would stay up late most nights he would, I would preach. You can make the sacrifices turn off the TV and then you know what we used to love like when we got engaged, you guys, this is like, this is a side note, but this is like you getting to know the real me.
We loved. It was before you could record or you had to do it on a VHS and we loved eight o’clock Thursday nights, friends send me a DM if you are like the original friend’s watcher. So we used to, we had, we had a passion, we still do for horses and we went to the barn and we rode and we were coming home and I always wanted to be showered and in front of that TV with him to watch that friend’s episode. And I’m here to tell you, people, it’s okay to love Friends episode and Netflix, you can do this and build $1 million business. But I was preaching to people, don’t watch TV. Give it up. Like who wants to be a part of a business or build a business that doesn’t allow you, if you want to indulge to indulge, it’s just having such great productivity or even what I call them, focus bubbles in your day that all of the things can happen and you can still sit down and watch a TV show with your husband.
So I’m going to share with you, we came home from the bar and where we lived in this little house that had the TV up in the front. I ran upstairs cause I needed to shower really fast before the Friend’s episode. So what he was asking me to marry him that night. So on my way up the stairs, I’m like taking off my clothes to get in the shower and he had put a bag, a little, um, like Brown bag in the medicine cabinet and on the medicine cabinet. It’s so cute. Will you marry me written in lipstick? If yes, please open. And I stopped in my tracks and I thought, I looked down and I was wearing underwear. That was not the underwear that you want to have somebody like what was I to do? Was I going to wear go downstairs? Did I get dressed again?
And I was stuck in, I was so excited, but I was like, Oh my gosh, I’m half-naked. I don’t want to go downstairs like in half-naked. I need to get back dressed again. What do I do? What do I do? And so I paused because I like, this was the perfect moment. It took me two tries to get it right and it’s always when God closes the door, he-man does he open a window for you? And that’s what happened with this man in my life. And so I paused. And so, of course, he’s like, why is she hesitating? But anyway, that was, I just love thinking back to that story and I just remember standing there and I had been riding horses, so I was wearing like the cotton underwear that wasn’t so sexy. And I’m like, well, do I put on a tee-shirt?
What do I do? How do I want this to go? And we always laughed because I was, it was all around. He was going to ask me to marry him. Then we watched that Friends episode. So I’m telling you this because we always connected over the kind of mindless TV routine at night. And when I started the business, he still had that routine. We had our shows, even that we could take them, we would sit and watch, and then we’d go to bed and we had conversations. And when I started building it because my focus bubbles, I didn’t even know how to get the things done that I needed to get done and I had zero boundaries. So when people were reaching out to me and messaging me and get on this call and get on this zoom and take this training, I gave up that and I was totally disconnected from him.
I would go to bed after he was in bed and like that feels like crap you guys and you can say, Oh honey, I’m building the business for our dreams. I was building a business that was so self-centered and I would wake up in the morning with the disconnect and something was off and something was off. I had built a flexible business for a time, but I was working around the clock and many days I didn’t even know what I was working toward because I did not have the mission action plan, which I call the map. I didn’t break down and I’m going to show you how to do all of this and this is what happens in my programs is I was just pushing for more and more, more, more people, more sales, more money, more ranks, more attention, more hosting of calls. And I had become a self-absorbed business owner with zero boundaries, basically an addiction.
What was the next bonus? What was the next call? What was the next life, what was the next zoom one was a product launch? What trip did I need to earn earbuds in one year while driving my daughter to rehearsals and the icing on the cake? Here it is. I was being asked to hop on and share something on a big call. And my son had walked through the door, his name is Donny, he’s a hockey player. And something had happened that night at hockey and they both walked in, my husband and my son and I had a call to get on and Donnie looked at me, and started to say something to me and then Don started to say it was, it was a moment that I was needed. And I was like, wait, you guys, I’ve got to grab this. And I walked away.
Okay. I walked away. I even found myself with an earbud in listening to training or something. Once I got into bed at night and it just, you guys, I kept thinking, the more I do, the more I’ll grow, the more people I’ll help them, more money I’ll make, and I did. I made money and I helped a lot of people, but the business model that had been a path for me to earn an outrageous amount of money was causing me to think that more was better and to not have a system and rituals and routines in place that would allow me to have it all. And I changed. I switched. This is what happened. I started to notice a few things in the business and I started to, I didn’t quite know what it was all about, but what I was doing is I was showing people that if you don’t do this, you can’t do it.
And they weren’t willing to take that, that track with me, many of them. So I had a really, really, really close, we had become close. She was earning a lot of money. She’s an up and coming leader. I knew her kids. I knew her husband. We had, we had shared the dreams. We got on calls together. You guys, she was killing it. I’m going to call her Catherine. She was killing it, but in reality, the business was killing her and one day she just decided it wasn’t worth it. And I was like, what do you mean it’s not worth it? Well, she never even, I don’t even think she wanted to tell me because I should have been a better mentor, a young mom that is creating routines that literally isolated a family because she was so focused on the next thing. Then the next thing, the next thing, and so it has become my mission.
It has become my mission to help women to make the money. Yes. I’m not saying take a step back from the goals. You will make more money and you will have a life that allows you to sit your ass on a chair on a Saturday, on a Friday afternoon and read an incredibly steamy novel if that’s what you want to do. And you will have more productivity, more focus, hit more goals and design the empowered path, the path that is your course and that is what you’re going to learn on this podcast. And that’s what I teach all of the time. It’s a vicious cycle. And then my sister, my sister Chris, she’s a physician’s assistant, she was like, she kind of jumped on board with me in the business. She had a super passion for health and wellness and helping people with wellness, but my manic ways, they rubbed off on her and was just one day she just was like, didn’t start.
She stopped showing up. Like I’d be like, hop on this, hop on this, let’s do this. Let’s be over here. And I’m posting all over Facebook every day and groups and this and that. And um, she just couldn’t do it anymore. She’s like, I have to do it my way. And she started to enjoy the Lake and her wife and she started to take a step back because she said, it doesn’t matter the money if you’re not like living the life that you want to be living. And I didn’t quite get it and I was like, I don’t really get it yet because it’s like a drug. The adrenaline is crazy and when the in the trophy fails to show up or when it does show up and then there’s another end more and it’s a vicious cycle and meaning the trophy being whatever it is, the next sale, the next, the next accomplishment that you’re going for.
And for those of us, and if you’re listening to this, you are one when you focus so much on winning and how it feels to win and that adrenaline of I’m gonna, I’m going to win this election. For example, I had the adrenaline of winning, becoming president in the college of our sorority and the focus was in, I want to win that. I want to be that person. And you lose track of feeling good. So that energy starts to work against you because this is where the Wu comes in. And I started to really dive into why when I was winning, all of a sudden did I stop winning? And it wasn’t, I mean, it was growing, but it wasn’t. I didn’t have the energy in the business because I’ve had negative energy. I wasn’t having the flow, the vibration people could feel that you know, the friend that walks in a room and we all have that friend and they walk into your home and laughs and is comfortable and it’s fun.
And the vibration, the energy of that room reflects that person. Because when you’re in a high vibration state when people can sense and feel, so at the beginning of my business, when I was not like addicted to trophies and winning and being kind of crazy at the beginning of the business, people could feel my excitement. They could feel that it was new and they wanted to be a part of it. And the same thing as happening now because I had that shift, I started putting rituals and routines and boundaries into place and really started focusing on taking care of my vessel, me, my energy, my mindset. And it is working your mindset and keeping your vibration and your energy high and the if your, I love Gabrielle Bernstein’s book, super attractor. So if you’re walking around and when you’re at the highest vibration, you’ve attracted amazing things into your life because it’s what the universe, it’s what God wants you to have.
But it also is, nobody wants to be around doom and gloom. So you have that friend that walks in and everything is like fun and happy because their vibration is so high. And then you have someone that comes in and it’s the opposite. It’s like pigpen from the penis, doom and gloom the, and this is all about the people that you surround yourself with as well. But when mama’s energy in our house, when we’re getting kids off to school is calm and cool. The essential oils, the music, you’ve got the lunches packed. So I started to explain fly lady back in the back in the beginning and I kinda got sidetracked. But fly lady would say, shine your sink at night, wake up in the morning, tie your shoes. And she started, I started when I had babies with these routines that she put into place.
And the one thing she would say is to shine your sink at night. So the next morning you’re not. And I didn’t realize what she was actually saying is when you wake up to the energy of chaos, your day starts in chaos. So those of you that did the fly lady thing, this is kind of the fly lady of business. Meaning when you wake up in the morning and your workspace is ready when your meditation pillow is ready when you’ve got your ritual and your morning routine ready when you’ve got your actual map for how the business looks for you, what feels good for you? If it doesn’t feel good for you to send a message the way X, Y, Z says, send this message, send enough. Go for the note. If that doesn’t feel right, there is a way for you to flow in your business and attract the people to you.
Yes, you have to do the work. Yes, you have to have conversations. Yes, it might be uncomfortable, but when you get into a space of this is where I am, this is who I serve, and you also offer it up to God, the universe, whatever your higher power, you are going to see the flow of your business change. So I want to finish with this story is the negativity started to creep in and I didn’t even know it because the balls were dropping with my kids. The balls were dropping with my husband, the balls were dropping with my friends, my health was suffering, I gained weight. I wasn’t liking how I looked in the mirror. And then I started to only, you know, I, I didn’t even show up for my business at home. I know that we say build your business in your yoga pants, but there’s some value to what fly lady said of tie your shoes.
Get up in the morning and, and show up. I did not have any focus bubbles. I didn’t have any rituals or routines. I said I did, I preached it, I taught it, but literally as the bank account was building and everyone thought that the fame was that, Oh wow. It looks so great. Social media is a lie. It was crumbling for me because I could feel it slipping away. And so I’m addicted to getting help from coaches. I love mentoring and coaching. I always will have a coach of my own. And I think that in any business, having someone that can look from the outside and help you to have your empowered path, but sometimes you have to do some searching for the right coach of like art, like so if you’re looking to grow your Instagram following by 10,000 I’m not the coach for you.
But if you were looking to, Hey, I want to have a flow to my business, a mission action plan. Sometimes I call it the millionaire action plan, but a map that shows me how I’m going to grow my business, but also in a way that’s joyful and I feel purpose and I’m excited. And I am like I, I want you to imagine yourself totally Zen with the essential oils in the background and the music and people coming your way. That’s where I am because we get out of the weeds together. Okay, so I’m going to tell you how you can get involved. We’ve got, we’re launching a really, really cool 12-week course that’s going to walk you through all of these areas with other people or in a private setting, you can do that as well or we have some camps coming up. So anyway, I hired a coach and I didn’t hire her because I knew I was out of alignment and I didn’t hire her because I wanted to reconnect with Don or repair my body.
I thought if I do more and I find a different way, I can get the next fix because you guys, I wasn’t vibrating at high energy so I wasn’t attracting the same type of people. I attracted in the beginning when I was vibrating at high energy when I had all of the things imbalanced when I was feeling really good about life as those balls dropped. Then all of a sudden, so it wasn’t like, Oh, you ran out of your warm market or everybody knows about your product or there are a million coaches out there that are coaching what you’re doing. No, it’s because I changed and I was falling apart. And so I thought if I hire this coach, and she’s an amazing coach and she has systems and talks about content building and talks about marketing and I learned so many things that I’m using now building out.
But the very first thing she said, the very first thing she said on our first zoom was, I want you all to commit to a morning routine. And I had told people about morning routines. I even preached morning routines, but I had never really committed to the morning routine of exactly what it was going to take. And then an evening routine, which then moved into creating my own system. That really has allowed me to really lean into the life that I want to have the life that feels so good to wake up in the morning, the life that shuts off my phone but has brought me even more abundance. So at the same time that I committed to this coach and this morning routine, um, McKenzie out of the blue asked me if I wanted to take a meditation class at the local yoga studio. She had been working with a coach for her acting and he suggested that she do some breath work and meditation.
So the magical moment wasn’t learning. Yes. I started to really dive into breathwork meditation and just being still as that was my introduction to a true guru in the area. But this is what happened. Mackenzie and I were in the car together and life had become so distracting. I was always in a hurry and she was 16 and she drove out of the driveway every day on her own. And so I made excuses like, Oh, that’s just normal that she goes in her room at night and we’re, this is what happened in the meditation class. It was the moment that I realized I had dropped the balls and I get emotional thinking about it. We’re sitting in this class with Rob McGregor at Moshe studio and I’ll always, every time it’s offered, I’ll take it. I’ll take that meditation class again to reground and I’m really on a mission to work that spiritual side.
I didn’t even know it at the time, but here’s what happened is we start into the meditation and there was this older woman who would come in and she immediately, whenever the meditation would start, three breaths in, you would start hearing her snore loudly. Like you know, the big snoring. And Rob would say he would do all the things that the meditation man is telling you to do, right. Breathe through it, distractions. But I looked over and Mackenzie’s looking at me and I caught her eye and we started to crack up. And that might not seem like a big thing, but what I realized at that moment that we hadn’t had that fun connection in so long. Yes, it’s part of having a teenage girl, but because I was so busy winning and rolling and I’m going to earn monies so we can get you to New York City and we’re going to so we have more freedom to do more things and look at me, look at me, look at me when and right in front of me.
I was missing those times that we had when we were totally in each other’s presence and we had a lot of those times. I homeschooled, she rode ponies for a long time. We travelled in a camper. We had a huge connection and my focus inward and my selfish focus but telling everyone this is for you. No, it wasn’t. It was for me because I was always, I was obsessed with winning and it’s okay to want to find your power and reignite your power, but it’s not okay to drop the glass balls and I sat for the rest of the class after that moment of connection and I just had hot tears streaming down my face and it was then that I realized it’s not about figuring out a meditation. Yes, it is for me. Silence. Yes, that was a really big piece, but it wasn’t about that moment of clarity.
It was about that moment when I thought, what the hell have I done? I had that joy of connection again and at that moment I made a decision that I needed to simplify. I needed to ask God, the universe and I, how can I realign? How can I serve, bring me back into a place of abundance with the love, the connection for my family, and also show me a path for my business and so I got to work. I didn’t want to walk away from the business. I had built a team I the team is like family. Although my manic building and energy were draining them. I also firmly believed that this business model will always be something that I can build. But I also realized that I needed to make my mission shift, that I needed to realize that this was, I was building this business and I was given this gift of leadership so that I could not have Katherine who literally locked herself in a closet because I was telling her the next strength, the next rank have to like walk away because she was so exhausted and defeated and, and her kids needed her so badly.
And when I started to add one simple thing, I started with a ritual every single morning. And in that ritual was a practice in, it’s still is, it’s a practice of gratitude. It’s a commitment of sitting in silence for 10 minutes, sometimes 20 minutes. And for a long time, I wasn’t even sure if I was meditating, but I was breathing. It’s a prayer each morning of guide for guidance and direction for abundance in my business and health and relationships. And it’s also getting into the affirmations. And I know that you’re thinking, Oh, not just another morning, but this morning map. This morning mission is a daily guide and this is what happened with it is then because of adding the focus bubbles, what I call a lot of people to use a wheel. I use a wheel in my programs that allow you to really determine, you have to dial in and determine not maybe you’re missing connection from a partner, but how was I going to recreate that connection and how would that look in my day in my focus bubbles?
What was I going to keep doing? What was I going to stop doing and what was I going to start doing and how did that look in that day? How was I going to reclaim my power chart? This new course map a different mission and I needed that. You have a plan because literally everything happens with a map because it’s just not going to happen by chance. Just like fly lady told me back, way back, shine your sink at night, put on your shoes and lace them up in the morning. How that started my day and I then started to work with different mentors. I started to study, I got more coaching around this and literally within 30 days doubled my income and transformed relationships. So this plan of 30 days of commitment and it is work to go from frenzy to abundance and I put the morning routine down.
I asked for the clarity, I interviewed super Zen mentors and friends. I studied, I got coaching, I applied it, I created this morning routine and then I created bubbles for the priorities and ways to figure out how each of those areas could work in those a family. Each person gets a section, health, business, spirituality, and my growth in my business. So the specific actions and intentions are written out there. Part of the focus, and I actually now it’s my therapy, it’s like an art project every single month. And what happens is this plan and this commitment and returning to joy and love, I became awake. I found that I’m walking my dogs, reconnecting with friends, launching this business that is bringing abundance and there’s still room for all of it. If you would’ve told me I would launch a second business that would be coaching and having camps for women and helping them to reconnect, realign, find their power, but have a business plan because it wasn’t about letting go and meditating every day.
It was about getting super focused on what was the plan that worked for me and then what was the plan that will work for Gail because what was the plan that will work for my friend Sarah, and how does that be? V it’s very specific. It’s your business, it’s your life, they’re your priorities. And what happened? Traveling to Mykonos with a group on top of this mountain, you guys, Denelle was, is an incredible mentor and she knew if she got me out of my comfort zone on top of this mountain, on this ATV, little scary bike thing, I did the hot tiers again and I realized that the more connection and the more gratitude would bring more money and I had incredible focus about what it was going to take. So you do have time for Netflix. If you desire sisters, you’ve got time for whatever you desire.
And this summer I floated on a unicorn in my pool. I read novels that had nothing to do with business. I went to the Lake with my friend Julie without my computer and only a journal. And in letting go I learned a thing or two about this trophy mentality and my business. As I said, the funny thing is it’s more abundant than ever. So stay with me on this path you guys, because we are going to align, we are going to lean into your gifts and we’re going to talk about how to build a business with your gifts, with your desire. We are going to talk about it all and we are going to master it and keep working it because we are all in this together. So that is kind of the ugly story. And then the awakening. And I can’t wait to share with you each section of the awakening.
And so today I want to ask you this. I want to ask you to do what I did and commit to gesture mornings for now. All of it’s going to fall into place. We can’t climb Mount Everest in one day. We’re going to take the first step, so I’ve got for you a, it’s a morning checklist. It’s a little different than one that you may be using and you’re going to make your morning routine yours, but I want to share with you my mission action plan morning. You’re going to find it at Beth Holden, graves.com forward slash warning and I also want to invite you over into our free Facebook group, which is called camp elevate. You’re going to go to the camp, elevate group.com and join us for free because this is the kind of stuff we get real within that community because I am so tired of not being able to say, you guys, listen, we need seven hours of sleep at night.
We’re not hustling, grinding, but I will promise you this. If you do this work with me, you are going to have abundance and you are going to wake up in the morning in such a connected state and when you are vibrating at that high level when you have the energy, people are going to want to know what it is you’re doing. Your business will flourish and more than anything you will serve more and you will gain more joy and give more joy. That is it for this episode today I got a little bit on fire because I’m so, so determined to help women to stop the insanity and reclaim that power and it doesn’t mean that you are, that power might be in relationship, it might be in friendships that might be in pleasure, but along the way we are not going to forget about those big audacious goals because you are going to win in your business and all other areas.
I will catch you next time on the next next episode. Thank you so much for being here with me today. Make sure you screenshot, send me a message. I would love to hear what areas are you winning and what rituals do you have or what would you like to have more of from me so I can help and serve? I would also love a five-star review. Please, please, please. Pretty pleased. I still do have that approval junkie piece of a people pleaser. I want to know that this is speaking to you and that review helps us to reach more people because if I had heard this episode, I probably would have saved a lot of time and saved some of you. Can you guys the glass balls, once they’re broken, they’re not broken forever. You can reconnect, but it’s work. We got to stay working. We’ve got to stay on it and we’ve got to commit. All right, I’ll catch you guys next time. Have a great and beautiful day.